How Has Cat Care Changed Since the 1970s? A German Childhood Perspective | Ep. 141

Dagmar shares a 1970s German childhood where cats had no vets, no spay/neuter, and kittens “went to heaven.” See how far cat care has come in 50 years.


Dagmar shares a 1970s German childhood where cats had no vets, no spay/neuter, and kittens “went to heaven.” See how far cat care has come in 50 years.


Learn how to adopt, foster, volunteer and donate to your local shelter with SPCA Finger Lakes’ Sean-Patrick Malloy.


AI-generated “cat experts” are showing up on social media with fake credentials and inconsistent details. Learn the red flags to watch for and how to verify who’s really giving you cat health advice.


Explore in this cat podcast why cat happiness starts with a calm home: how your nervous system affects your cat, plus natural calming tips.


Why does singing calm cats down? Discover the science — vagus nerve stimulation, breathing, and cortisol — behind this surprising calming trick.


Discover how cats can help you shift from anxious to secure attachment. Dagmar shares 4 steps to build boundaries, self-trust, & emotional balance.


Looking for a trustworthy cat sitter for indoor or community cats? Learn what to look for, what affects pricing, and why an in-person trial meeting matters.

Do your cats feel your mood before you say a word? Episode 128 explores how energy shapes your home — and why calm starts with you, not your cats.

When Snow White started a renal support diet for early kidney disease, I realized taking care of myself is part of taking care of my cat. Here’s what she taught me.

Discover how a simple daily coffee break became a meaningful ritual that helps cats feel loved, safe, and connected while giving their cat mom time to recharge.

Wondering how to keep going through the difficult days of being a cat mom? Discover how purpose, love, and compassion make every challenge worthwhile.

An unexpected vet emergency made me ask: What would life be without cats? Discover how our cats give us purpose and unconditional love.

Being responsible for a cat means more than providing food and shelter. Learn how love, gratitude, and uncertainty shape life as a cat parent.

A cat is not an object but a living being with emotional needs. Learn why attention, companionship, and presence matter in this Diary of a Cat Mom episode.

Learn how senior cat care changes as cats age. Discover how adapting to their changing needs strengthened our bond in this Diary of a Cat Mom episode.

Looking for thoughtful gifts for a cat mom? In this episode, I share how my values around cat themed gifts, toys, and enrichment have changed.

Learn how cat furniture can help indoor cats feel safe, relaxed, and truly at home. A personal story from Diary of a Cat Mom.

Can pets help regulate a dysregulated nervous system? Discover how one rescue cat mom learned to stay calmer through everyday moments with her cats.

Do people think you’re “just a cat mom”? Discover the lesson my rescue cats taught me about friendship, gratitude, and feeling understood.

Feeling overwhelmed caring for your cats? Discover how asking for help and planning ahead can reduce stress for both you and your furry family.

Need to get your cat into a carrier without all the stress? Discover what one rescue cat mom learned after years of trial, error and calmer vet visits.

What blessings have your cats brought into your life? In this heartfelt episode, I reflect on the rescue cats who changed my life forever.

I thought I ordered my usual cat food, but the delivery wasn’t what I expected. Here’s the lesson I learned about slowing down and paying attention.


Can cats learn to listen? Discover how calm communication, consistency, and positive reinforcement helped my own cats respond to simple verbal cues.

Can you hold an adult cat by the scruff? A cat mom shares what she learned about scruffing, cat handling, and building trust with cats.

A cat mom reflects on love, trust, and expectations after learning that cats often show affection differently than humans do.

A cat mom shares how migraines, stress, and difficult days affect her relationship with her cats and the lesson of self-compassion they continue to teach.

In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom, I share what happened when I tried dancing with my cats, what I learned from researching the topic, and why respecting our cats’ individual preferences may be one of the greatest acts of love we can offer.

Learn how to create an emergency preparedness kit for your cat, including food, water, med records, carriers, meds, and evacuation planning tips.

Wondering what happens to your cat if something happens to you? Learn about pet trusts, caregivers, and simple steps cat parents can take to protect their cats.

Some topics are painful to think about as a cat mom, but they matter deeply. Life can suddenly change through financial hardship, divorce, illness, housing…

Caring for cats while ignoring your own health can lead to emotional and physical exhaustion. Learn why self-care matters for cat moms too.

Is your cat just a pet or part of your family? Discover how perspective shapes your bond and connection with your cat.

A personal story about health, awareness, and the lymph system—why taking care of your body helps you show up better for your cats.

Discover how a simple daily routine creates calm for both you and your cats. A real-life cat mom diary episode on structure, feeding, and connection.


Discover the physical side of being a cat mom and how small habits help you stay strong for yourself and your cats.

Stop overthinking your cat’s behavior. Learn how letting go of what you can’t control creates calm, clarity, and a better connection with your cats.

Being busy isn’t the same as being present. Learn how to turn daily cat care into meaningful connection moments.


Can cats help heal anxious attachment? Discover how steady feline companionship creates emotional safety and supports deeper self-connection.


Are robot pets real companionship? Discover what’s missing compared to caring for a real cat and why responsibility creates connection.

A heartfelt reflection on wanting to rescue every cat—and the mindset shift that brings peace, clarity, and grounded love.


Wondering if you’re doing enough for your cat? This gentle reflection explores how presence, not perfection, shapes your cat’s quality of life.

In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast episode, host Dagmar Gatell shares the real emotional and life costs of being a cat mom—from daily sacrifices to deep responsibility—and why love makes it worth it.

The world is changing—and with it, the way we live, work, and experience daily life. For many of us, that brings uncertainty. But for cat…


Feeling pressure to do everything right for your cat? Diary of a Cat Mom’s host Dagmar Gatell shares a gentle reminder for cat moms that your best is enough—and presence matters most.

A heartfelt reflection on how being a cat mom leads to personal growth, emotional healing, and a deeper connection to life.

Struggling with cat mom guilt? In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast episode, host Dagmar Gatell explores feeling “not enough” and why your presence matters more than perfection.

A reflection on releasing expectations while caring for cats. A diary-style podcast episode about patience, trust, and loving cats at their own pace.

A quiet reflection for new cat moms about becoming responsible, learning through experience, and what I’d do differently now after living with my cat.


A gentle cat podcast sharing real-life moments, quiet reflections, & everyday experiences from life as a devoted cat mom. For cat lovers who care.